Munchausen Syndrome and The Story of Gypsy Rose Blanchard ELIF IŞIL ARSLAN FAT M A N U R A K D I The Beginning of The Lie That Ended In Tragedy A daughter who was stricken by cancer, muscular dystrophy, and a host of other diseases but still smiling every chance she got, and a mother who was devoted to giving her daughter everything she ever wanted. For over 20 years, they were the seemingly perfect picture of inspiration and hope. Gypsy Rose Blanchard grew up with her mother, Dee Dee Blanchard, making claims about her health that resulted in a series of dire diagnoses and medical interventions. However, Gypsy wasn't actually unwell, her mother had been lying about her symptoms since she was born. Experts believe Dee Dee's behavior came from the mental disorder Munchausen syndrome by proxy. What Is Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy? Munchausen syndrome by proxy(MSP) is a mental health disorder in which a caregiver, most often a mother, routinely makes up fake symptoms or causes real symptoms in a child or adult victim to make it appear that the victim has a true physical or mental health issue. Many people with MSP exaggerate or lie about a child’s symptoms to get attention. They may also create symptoms by poisoning food, withholding food, or causing an infection. MSP can affect anyone, but it’s most commonly seen in mothers of children under age 6. Since a parent or caretaker with MSP often appears to be caring and attentive, doctors usually don’t suspect any wrongdoing. Diagnosis can also be difficult due to the person’s ability to manipulate doctors and induce symptoms in the child. As a result, MSP cannot be detected in many cases. The Childhood Of Gypsy Rose Blanchard Gypsy Rose Blanchard was born on July 27, 1991, in Golden Meadow, Louisiana. Shortly before her birth, her mother Dee Dee Blanchard and Rod Blanchard had separated. Though Dee Dee described Rod as a deadbeat drug addict who had abandoned his daughter. According to Rod, he was only 17 years old when 24-year-old Dee Dee became pregnant with Gypsy Rose. He soon realized that he “got married for the wrong reasons.” Despite separating from Dee Dee, Rod remained in contact with her and Gypsy Rose and regularly sent them money. First Lie When Gypsy Rose was an baby, Dee Dee brought her to the hospital, convinced she had sleep apnea. Though there was no sign of the disease, Dee Dee remained convinced, eventually determining herself that Gypsy Rose had an unspecified chromosomal disorder. From then on, she watched her daughter like a hawk, fearing disaster could strike at any moment. Diseases Are On The Rise Then, when Gypsy Rose was around eight years old, she fell off of her grandfather’s motorcycle. Dee Dee took her to the hospital, where she was treated for a minor abrasion to her knee. But she believed that Gypsy Rose would need several surgeries if she ever hoped to walk again. Until then, Dee Dee decided, Gypsy Rose would remain in a wheelchair. After taking Gypsy Rose to a hospital in New Orleans, Dee Dee claimed that her daughter now had problems with her vision and hearing. In addition, she claimed that the child had begun to suffer from seizures. While medical tests showed no signs of any of these diseases, doctors against all odds prescribed medication for Gypsy Rose. Last New Home In 2005, Hurricane Katrina forced Dee Dee and Gypsy Rose Blanchard to move north to Aurora, Missouri. There, the two became little celebrities, acting for the rights of disabled people and the sick. Habitat for Humanity built them a house with a wheelchair ramp and a hot tub, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation sent them on trips to Disney World and gave them backstage passes to a concert. Through her experience as a nurse assistant, Dee Dee was familiar with most diseases and medications. She used many drugs to provide appropriate symptoms. She told Gypsy she had cancer and she cut her hair. They would fall anyway. Gypsy couldn't eat because she was sick. That's why she was fed through a tube inserted in her stomach. Gypsy's teeth were falling out one by one because of the drugs she was taking. First Suspicions Doctors in the country were volunteering for Gypsy's treatment. Maybe there was something they could do to make the little girl well. Of course, if Gypsy was really sick. One of these doctors, Bernardo Flasterstein; offered to see Gypsy Rose at his clinic. But while she was there, Flasterstein discovered she didn’t have any of the diseases that Dee Dee claimed she had. When Dee Dee brushed him off, he began to make calls to doctors in New Orleans. Though Dee Dee claimed the hurricane had washed away all of Gypsy Rose’s records, Flasterstein was able to find doctors whose records had survived. After talking to them and confirming once again that Gypsy Rose was a healthy child, he began to suspect that Dee Dee was the one who was actually sick. It’s since been suggested that Dee Dee had Munchausen syndrome by proxy. By the way Gypsy Rose had also begun to suspect that there was something seriously wrong with her mother. As she got older, Gypsy's suspicions grew, too. Although she could walk, her mother was forcing her to stay in a wheelchair. Although she could eat, she had to use a feeding tube. Her patience was exhausted when she learned by coincidence that her real age was 19, not 15. Ever since then, she’d been attempting to escape from her mother. One night she even showed up at her neighbor’s door, standing on her own two feet, begging for a ride to a hospital. But Dee Dee quickly intervened and explained the whole thing. She said she talked like that because of her mental problems. Her ability to stand was the result of years of hard work. It was impossible not to believe this good-hearted mother who won everyone's love. Gypsy failed to reach its goal. She began to look for other ways to escape. With that hope, she made a plan to run away with an older man she had met. However, her mother caught Gypsy in her hotel room with the police. When they got home, Gypsy was exposed to various reactions from her mother. Dee Dee chained her daughter to the bed for 2 weeks. Gypsy's Search For Help After the incident, Gypsy Rose began using the internet again for meet men in online chat rooms when Dee Dee went to bed. No matter how hard Dee Dee tried to keep her away, Gypsy was somehow able to access the internet. Though her mother chained her to her bed and threatened to smash her fingers with a hammer when she found out about her online activities, Gypsy Rose continued to chat with the men, hoping one of them could save her. Finally, in 2012, when she was about 21 years old, she met Nicholas Godejohn, a 23-year-old man from Wisconsin. Godejohn had a criminal record and a history of mental illness, but Gypsy Rose didn’t care that. A few months after meeting, Nicholas Godejohn came to visit Gypsy Rose and while Dee Dee was watching film in the cinema, the two had seen each other in the toilet. After that, they began to plan Dee Dee’s murder. The New Beginning Through Facebook messages, the two planned the demise of Dee Dee. Godejohn would wait until Dee Dee had gone to bed, and then Gypsy Rose would let him in so he could do the deed. Then, one night in June 2015, it was done. While Dee Dee was sleeping in her bed, Nicholas Godejohn stabbed her 17 times in the back while Gypsy was hiding in the bathroom so she wouldn't hear her mother's screams. Shortly after Dee Dee died, the couple fled to Godejohn’s home in Wisconsin, where they were arrested just days later. The next day, people who took action with Gypsy's Facebook post found Dee Dee's body covered in blood at home. Although it was thought that poor wheelchairbound Gypsy was kidnapped at first, the details of the incident became clear when the couple was caught. The Judgment Process Gypsy Rose Blanchard later revealed that she had posted the message because she wanted her mother’s body to be discovered. Although she certainly didn’t plan on being caught, her arrest eventually gave her the opportunity to finally share her real story with the world. And before long, the sympathy that had always followed Dee Dee passed to Gypsy Rose. At the age of 24, people could not recognize her with her long hair, walking and self-expression. Gypsy Rose Blanchard, she pleaded guilty to seconddegree murder in 2016 and was ultimately sentenced to 10 years in prison. It is expected to be released in 2024. (Nicholas Godejohn was sentenced to life in prison for first-degree murder.) Meanwhile, Gypsy Rose has since researched her mother’s condition and has come to terms with the abuse she suffered. She is regretful for the murder but saying she is better off without Dee Dee. “I feel like I’m freer in prison than living with my mom,” she said in 2018. “Because now, I’m allowed to just… live like a normal woman.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulKbS9Fn2mw&t=1s